A Nigerian woman, Nicky Sommy Ugom, who recently welcomed a baby with her new man, has addressed people expressing concerns over the safety of her three daughters from a previous marriage. While acknowledging their concerns, she assured them that her daughters will always come first before any man and she will never be in a relationship they are not comfortable with. According to her, her man is a protector and a father who understands the importance of children. Many people have questioned the safety of my children in my relationship and believe me their question is coming from a place of love which I understand very well, she wrote in a Facebook post on Saturday. Lets talk a little about this. First of all my darlings, nobody on this earth, I mean this earth love my children more than I do. You see these 3 babies right here?! They are my mini gods and now we have another mini god added. You all should know that at this stage of my life I cant just risk my children for anything. I have built myself over the years and no more the lady who depends on anyone for survival. I have always been the one to tell people especially single mothers with girls to mind the kind of men they choose for themselves for the sake of their children. Who is even safe?. Even some female children are not safe with their own biological fathers. I think we should understand that we can only do our best as humans and leave the rest to our creator. My children come first in everything I do. I will never be in a relationship they are not comfortable with. They know what is good at their age and my daughter Chisom will tell you simple if she is not ok with a person. Please everyone, my babies and I are safer now than ever!! This is not love don carry her. Everyone around me knows so well that I cherish friendship and same way I cherish love, then when its my children what do you expect? I told myself from onset that I wont have anything to do with a single guy that has no child or children before because they might not really understand the importance of children. I kept to that till God gave me mine. I dont need to tell you about my man but just take this with you. He is a confirm father! In fact I learnt a lot from this person which even helped me in training my girls and am not here to brag! He is a protector. So please my darlings, worry about something else because my girls and I are very ok. Nicky is not in her vulnerable state anymore. I got into this with my clear eyes and believe me. Till tomorrow, I will keep blessing God for bringing him our way. Please nobody should insult anyone, their question is not harmful and I understand why they asked. Thank you for your understanding and please enough of the question but if you want to continue then Nicky wont even reply.
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