Nigerian woman recalls when someone she respects a lot told her to "keep aside" her 12-year-old son if she wants to get married

A Nigerian lady, Monica Uwem Inyang, has recalled when someone she highly respects told her to keep aside her 12-year-old son if she wants to get married.   Inyang, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Tuesday, November 25, 2025 said the person went on to tell her that she shouldnt expect a man to be comfortable with her son.   Random thought I just remembered how someone I respect a lot on this app told me, Monica.. if you want to get married you must keep your son aside, like dont expect the man to be comfortable with your son, she wrote.  "Since then, anytime I see him wearing suit with his shiny shoe to work..in my eyes hes naked like the Ancient mad man named National that used to stay at Itam Junction. I don't know where some of you buy audacity from to be honest. A for Audacity.